Finalization Day

A day we thought would never get here finally arrived.  After a little over 8 months Hannah is forever ours.  As happy as we are about this day we also take a step back and think about our wonderful birth mom, with this being the last step in the process and potentially being a sad day for her.

During the finalization process we were joined by both of the Grandmas, Allen’s Grandma, and our friend Erin.  Everyone was shedding tears of happiness.  The judge said all adoptions are special, but ours is even more special because of adopting a child with special needs.  He said he commended us on doing this and how he felt us adopting Hannah was definitely in her best interest.  He said he sees so many bad things each day in court and usually leaves taking that with him, but not today he said, it would be a happy day for him.

We finished the day celebrating with some of our closest friends and family at a local burger restaurant where we rented out the top floor.  We are so truly blessed to have so much love and support during this entire process and the love and acceptance everyone has for Hannah.

This day would not have been possible without the help of a great non-profit the National Down Syndrome Adoption Network.  We will never be able to thank them enough for their help in making us a family of 3.


Welcome to Nothing Down About Hannah! Here we will talk about the wonderful life of our daughter Hannah.We are Allen and Jessica. Due to infertility we were led to the path of adoption and felt called to adopt a child with Down syndrome. We aren’t super heros, as many seem to tell us how “proud they are of us” when at the end of the day we wanted to be parents and just happen to be the parents of a child with Down syndrome.
We got the call in early October 2016 from the National Down Syndrome Adoption Network, a non-profit organization that helps link birth families, adoptive families, and adoption agencies together through their registry, about a baby girl born in September. A week later we found out that we were matched and the following week got to meet Hannah for the first time. We were absolutely in love from day one. The end of October she was officially placed with us and our home has been filled with so much love since then.

Early on in the pregnancy it was diagnosed that she had duodenal atresia, a blockage in her intestines that would require surgery shortly after birth. Around 31 weeks it was discovered she had a complete AV canal defect, a large hole in her heart that would require surgery to repair. Once the #CHD, congenital heart defect, was diagnosed they told birth mom there was a possibility that Hannah would have Down syndrome due to 50% of individuals with DS having a heart condition. Doctors offered multiple times from 31-34 weeks for birth mom to have an abortion, but she said no, choosing life and fighting for Hannah.

Hannah was born and immediately lifeflighted to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital. After birth she started having respiratory problems. At one day old she had surgery to repair the blockage in her intestines. She received the official diagnosis of Trisomy 21 when she was around three weeks old after having genetic testing done. It is called Trisomy 21 because there are three pairs of the 21st chromosome instead of two, though it is commonly referred to as Down syndrome after John Langdon Down.  

At five weeks old she had a g tube put in, a feeding tube surgically inserted into her stomach. Individuals with DS usually have lower muscle tone, which makes feeding in babies much harder due to the low tone in their mouths. This can also put extra stress on a baby’s heart from overworking trying to feed while having a heart condition.  

At eight weeks old she had a ML&B, a scope done to check out her airway and lungs to try to determine why she was having so many breathing issues. Surgery showed that she had choanal stenosis, narrowing of the nasal passage on one side of her nose, and tracheomalacia, referred to as a floppy airway where the trachea partially collapses during breathing. The scope put too much stress on her putting her in full blown heart failure, where she went from 3 liters of oxygen to a c-pap of 8 and was closely monitored with frequent mentions of being intubated, using a breathing tube hooked up to a ventilator.  
The hope of waiting for her to get bigger and being around six months old to repair her heart was no longer an option, she needed heart surgery and needed it fast, but was so tiny. For two weeks she stayed sedated because we could not risk her having any extra stress on her heart and they wanted her to gain as much weight as possible prior to surgery. We were able to pick our surgeon, so we selected Dr. Tweddell, head of cardiac surgery at Cincinnati Children’s. At 10 weeks old she had surgery to repair the large hole in her heart, which ended up being worse once they got in there including finding out she had a double orifice of the mitral valve.  

Heart surgery created a completely new baby, where he color instantly started to change from fair skinned to having some color. She was able to come off the ventilator later that night because she was doing so well. The next day she was able to start reducing the amount of oxygen from 8 liters down to 5, the following day she reduced even more. We got to come home to Nashville less than two weeks after heart surgery and she was off of oxygen for the first time in her life.

Now we have been home a few months and are active in our local Down syndrome community and hope to educate and spread as much awareness as possible about the extraordinary lives of those that have a little something extra.

We hope you enjoy going through this journey called life with us!